Doing something foolish, unintentionally upsetting someone, then falling over yourself and sending long-winded messages to apologise and set things right. Why do you have to set things right always? You know, sometimes, you've just goofed up beyond repair. So shut up and deal with it. What makes you're so deserving of being able to offer an explanation or make amends? It's very irritating and only exacerbates the situation.