All of this when, at some point, you would've actually taken that same stand if you felt compelled enough, but haven't made that decision yet and now don't want to be arm-wrangled into it.
1) Try and push your point and make unemotional strong arguments to make your case?
2) Give up without a fight and give in?
3) Do not fight/argue because it already seems like a lost cause but silently achieve your stand, risking some amount of bridge-burning etc.
4) Do not fight and make things unpleasant, but become superman/woman and keep everyone happy in the equation. (HAH).
There is no middle ground. its A's way or B's way.